Re: Dad learns something about Alfie
Posted by WillyGetsWet on July 13, 2021 at 20:38:18
In Reply to: Re: Dad learns something about Alfie posted by Alfie on July 11, 2021 at 21:00:33:
Hey Alfie! I've been reading your family's stories on wacky wet world for a while now and I've really enjoyed them. I don't have this same problem that you do. However, I do think I can offer a bit of advice. Not sure how helpful I'll be but I'd like to try to help somehow. Firstly, your problem is nothing to be ashamed of. It's not something you can control. I understand so many people say they would prefer to be in your position, without realizing the drawbacks of it. Setting boundaries with people in your life who are close to you about what type of language is acceptable to you is important. I know you're younger and people might not be mature about it, but hey, I'm in my early 20s and some people never grow up. It's important to establish healthy boundaries where you think they're needed.
It could be a culture thing, but here in Canada people aren't quite as open about talking about that kind of stuff, everyone is a lot more shy and keep to themselves in locker room situations, not always but more often than not. As far as what to wear, obviously avoiding slim fit (or slimmer fitting) items would help. I think baggie shorts and pants would be a good way to go. It also helps that you like to swim in clothes! Definitely takes some attention away from that area in that kind of situation.
Feel free to answer this or not if it's not something you'd like to speak on, but do you happen to prefer males or females? I ask because as an "average sized" male who prefers both, I can easily say that circumstances will vary depending on which sex you are dealing with, whether that's friendships or in a relationship type of situation. Last but not least, you have a dad and two brothers who also like to get wet fully clothed and seem to understand your situation. Talking to them might help, especially your dad. He seems like a cool guy (even though you mentioned you don't like to admit it 😅). Having two brothers is an advantage for you I would say; I grew up with one sister and that made it so I had no one my own age to talk to about that kind of stuff.
Anyways I hope that helps, maybe it doesn't, but I thought I'd try and offer some encouragement. If you (or anyone else) ever needs to reach out!
Stay safe and stay wet!
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