Re: Jumping in the deep end first thing!
Posted by wetjumper on December 29, 2020 at 01:32:06
In Reply to: Re: Jumping in the deep end first thing! posted by wetnboy on December 19, 2020 at 01:49:08:
I'm rather late to respond as I was hesitating about posting some of this. Decided to go for it at last...
I really enjoyed reading about your waterbed experience with Andy - very glad you were able to share it. It's interesting that although he did nothing directly sexual with you, always kept his undies on and never came in them (although he was hard) when hugging you in bed (not humping or grinding), and he was "straight as an arrow", he was clearly happy that you creamed your undies every time whilst in contact with him, and he gave you that pleasure repeatedly. It's a pity this had to stop.
I've often hoped I might experience something like this with a friend, but I'm too reserved to share much physical contact, and the only friend I've known who habitually hugged people was someone I couldn't see myself sharing a bed with, even platonically... and he's dead now anyway. (Also I don't have a waterbed.)
After reading your story I went to bed wearing a new pair of running tights (soft and clingy) - and I had a lovely dream and seemed to be comfortably hard all night. I was slightly disappointed that I didn't cum, but I'm over 60 and I stopped having even sporadic wet dreams over 20 years ago. I needed a helping hand... and the next night I got one (my own, oh well).
I recall a series of posts, maybe 15 years ago, by a shy and anxious South African who'd encountered a young man swimming in clothes in a pool (they both were?) and hooked up with him - they went to bed together with their wet briefs still on, fondling each other until they both came intensely inside their briefs - the writer said "I think coming in your pants can actually be more exciting than being naked". I'd been wearing my jeans commando as I first read it, but I was turned on enough by his story that I dug out a pair of briefs, stuffed my hardening boner inside them, and wore them as I re-read the story... creaming my briefs very satisfyingly as I imagined being part of that experience! Sadly it soon seemed the young man had been only playing or experimenting, he became intimately involved with a girl - which upset the writer as he'd hoped for a continuing relationship.
You said "I am single, happy (mostly - except during this covid thing), and free to pursue my own wet adventures and cream my jeans often. I think I read on here one-time someone posted that makes me asexual (ha ha - love that)." I'm in the same position. I think of myself as celibate (not for ever, I hope) and not asexual. I have a sex-life, but it's generally solo. (Ah... so I'm currently autosexual? That word makes me think of (1) someone who is a Sex Machine [James Brown] or an Automatic Lover [Dee D Jackson], rather than doing it manually; or (2) someone who only makes love in a car? Sorry, couldn't resist it! ;-)
And while we're revealing things we've kept to ourselves: I've never had penetrative sex with anyone. Unclothed sex has never gone well for me, I have too many anxieties and hangups (I might explain the background sometime). I've always been attracted to boys rather than girls, but I'm not at ease with a standard gay lifestyle. My best sexual experiences have all involved clothes (especially wet), and I've always liked physical stimulation best through a layer of clothing. A few years ago I decided "this is what I do", so I made it my habit to keep my clothes on with no last-minute unzipping or pulling down, ejaculating inside them. I've known since my teens that this often feels "right" in wet clothes, although I can still feel slightly guilty about doing it in dry clothes as it was something of a taboo when I was growing up. Since 2016 this site has actively urged readers to cum inside their clothes - I found this encouraging and exciting.
I'd love to have clothed sex with a partner, bringing each other off together, but I've been solitary for a long time so I have to use my imagination and memories when rubbing and massaging through material. The result is messy inside but there's no mess outside to find and clean up beyond a glistening wet patch - I know exactly where my cum went, I'm wearing it! Now... if I could find someone else who likes this idea, someone who'd combine a meeting of minds (which I want) with a meeting of clothed bodies, maybe I could find and share some happiness? (Mmm. Dream on.) - Posting this at last feels a bit like jumping in the deep end too, even though I've been on this site for many years.
Enjoy your wet adventures, I enjoy reading them! I have few opportunities of my own just now. Things should be getting better after Easter?
Peter (wetjumper)
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